czwartek, 8 sierpnia 2013

Some Signs Of Domestic Abuse

By Andrea Davidson


Domestic abuse is a specific pattern or a human behavior which includes the abuse of one partner to the other who usually have a certain intimate relationship like marriage, dating or a member of the family. This could greatly happen to everyone, but the problem is mostly overlooked, denied and excused. This will hold true to most situations especially if it is done psychologically and not physically.

Nobody should live in fear of the person that they love. Once you have noticed and acknowledged the signs of an abusive relationship, you must take the first step to end it. If you know someone who are showing some signs of it, reach out your help before it is too late.

The best sign of any abuse would be when you start getting afraid of your partners. If you have the feeling of discomfort and insecurity upon living with them, there might be a big problem. It is often characterized by jealousy, intrusion, possession, isolation and over controlling.

A potential batterer has various reasons as well. Jealousy may also be another reason for it. These people often equate jealousy with love. They often control the entire behavior of a victim. They do not want to see them spending some time with others. They might even ask some friends to watch over the victim when he or she gets out.

Cheating or being disloyal is often accused to a victim. They often mandate their partners to stop all relationships with her or his female or male friends. They can even show up in the workplace of the certain victim. Suspicion has been the reason for it. Each person deserves to be loved, respected, trusted and treated as special rather than dealing with such people who will tend to take over their lives and their privacy.

If you have noticed that these people are threatening you and all the people that you love, you should leave before the entire situation would worsen. They might begin with a few screaming and shouting and will later on escalate to some forms of life threatening acts. They could start to threaten themselves also because they want to use care as a weapon.

If you think that your partner would want you to become isolated from the present world, you must think about it. They may also tell you to leave some people because they do not want them. They would also control you by not allowing you to go to several places. You should always ask for help and find a stable support whenever you experience these things.

Others might stalk you to every place you go. To have a stalker is not good, rather, it is horrifying. You will surely live the rest of your lives in fear. Keep in mind that stalking is always a crime. As much as possible, you must immediately report these incidents.

Domestic abuse would often end in burning, biting and cutting you. Everybody deserves a life that is free from violence and intimidation. With an abusive partner, you would never achieve it. Do not be afraid to speak up and express yourself. If possible, point out some things with your partner and discuss about it simply so that you will not end up being beaten and abused.




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